My favorite stranger stands in my mirrorPuts words in my mouthAll broke and bitter
In a poignant exploration of identity and duality, Depeche Mode’s suspenseful synth diversion My Favourite Stranger (from Memento Mori), co-written by Martin Gore and Richard Butler (Psychedelic Furs), paints a haunting tableau of an individual’s relationship with an elusive other. This “perfect stranger” not only mirrors the protagonist’s actions, but also trespasses on their very essence…moving stealthily, mimicking speech, and eerily echoing footsteps. This doppelgänger embodies the darker, perhaps suppressed facets of the psyche. Through evocative imagery of stolen shadows and echoed conversations, the song explores themes of self-recognition, confrontation, and the unsettling realization that our most intimate stranger might be the reflection we see in the mirror.
Anton Corbijn’s visual interpretation of the song is as enigmatic as the lyrics, themselves. His monochromatic palette not only accentuates the surreal, dreamlike quality of the narrative but also magnifies the tension inherent in its suspense. The solitary figure, cloaked in ambiguity with a wide-brimmed hat, becomes both the protagonist and the enigma, a symbol of the elusive “perfect stranger” that the song contemplates. As the character traverses through varied terrains—from the mystic woods to an antiquated European shop—it’s the viewer who is ensnared in a game of chase, always on the periphery, always observing but never truly connecting. Corbijn’s choice to reveal mere flashes of the androgynous face ensures that the figure remains perennially out of grasp, much like the shadowy stranger in the song. While the climax promises a revelation, Corbijn smartly nudges viewers to embark on their own introspective journey to uncover the enigma.
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In “Memento Mori,” Depeche Mode crafts an evocative narrative, melding both the looming existential weight of the pandemic and the haunting absence of their bandmate, Andy “Fletch” Fletcher. The album stands as a stark reminder of life’s transience and the inescapable approach of mortality. James Ford and Marta Salogni’s touch in the production imbues each track with a polished gravitas, creating an auditory experience that captures both personal loss and global upheaval.
Despite the dark title and prevailing themes of death, the album also becomes a celebration of life and the deep connections that endure. In embracing their sorrow, Depeche Mode delivers an album that is a testament to resilience, the evanescence of life, and the indelible marks we leave behind.
My Favourite Stranger is on Memento Mori, out now. Order the album here.
Depeche Mode “Memento Mori” Tour Dates:
NORTH AMERICA
- Sept. 21: Mexico City, MX – Foro Sol
- Sept. 23: Mexico City, MX – Foro Sol
- Sept. 25: Mexico City, MX – Foro Sol
- Sept. 29: Austin, TX – Moody Center
- Oct. 1: Dallas, TX – American Airlines Center
- Oct. 4: Houston, TX – Toyota Center
- Oct. 7: New Orleans, LA – Smoothie King Center
- Oct. 10: Orlando, FL – Amway Center
- Oct. 12: Miami, FL – Miami-Dade Arena
- Oct. 15: Atlanta, GA – State Farm Arena,
- Oct. 19: Nashville, TN – Bridgestone Arena
- Oct. 21: Brooklyn, NY – Barclays Center
- Oct. 23: Washington, D.C. – Capital One Arena
- Oct. 25: Philadelphia, PA – Wells Fargo Center
- Oct. 28: New York, NY – Madison Square Garden
- Oct. 31: Boston, MA – TD Garden
- Nov. 3: Montreal, QC – Centre Bell
- Nov. 5: Toronto, ON – Scotiabank Arena
- Nov. 8: Detroit, MI – Little Caesars Arena
- Nov. 10: Cleveland, OH – Rocket Mortgage FieldHouse
- Nov. 13: Chicago, IL – United Center
- Nov. 16: Denver, CO – Ball Arena
- Nov. 18: Salt Lake City, UT – Vivint Arena
- Nov. 21: Edmonton, AB – Rogers Place
- Nov. 24: Vancouver, BC – Rogers Arena
- Nov. 26: Seattle, WA – Climate Pledge Arena
- Nov. 28: Portland, OR – MODA Center
- Dec. 1: Las Vegas, NV – T-Mobile Arena
- Dec. 3: San Francisco, CA – Chase Center
- Dec. 6: San Diego, CA – Pechanga Arena
- Dec. 8: San Diego, CA – Pechanga Arena
- Dec. 10: Los Angeles, CA – Kia Forum
- Dec. 12: Los Angeles, CA – Kia Forum
- Dec. 15: Los Angeles, CA – Crypto.com Arena
- Dec. 17: Los Angeles, CA – Crypto.com Arena
EUROPE
- Jan. 22: London, UK – O2 Arena
- Jan. 24: Birmingham, UK – Utilita Arena
- Jan. 29: Manchester, UK – AO Arena
- Jan. 31: Glasgow, UK – OVO Hydro
- Feb. 3: Dublin, IE – 3Arena
- Feb. 6: Antwerp, BE – Sportpaleis
- Feb. 8: Amsterdam, NL – Ziggo Dome
- Feb. 10: Copenhagen, DK – Royal Arena
- Feb. 13: Berlin, DE – Mercedes-Benz Arena
- Feb. 15: Berlin, DE – Mercedes-Benz Arena
- Feb. 17: Hamburg, DE – Barclays Arena
- Feb. 22: Prague, CZ – O2 Arena
- Feb. 24: Prague, CZ – O2 Arena
- Feb. 27: Lodz, PL – Atlas Arena
- Feb. 29: Lodz, PL – Atlas Arena
- March 3: Paris, FR – Accor Arena
- March 5: Paris, FR – Accor Arena
- March 7: Munich, DE – Olympiahalle
- March 12: Madrid, ES – Wizink Center
- March 14: Madrid, ES – Wizink Center
- March 16: Barcelona, ES – Palau Sant Jordi
- March 19: Lisbon, PT – Altice Arena
- March 21: Bilbao, ES – BEC
- March 23: Torino, IT – Pala Alpitour
- March 26: Budapest, HU – MVM Dome
- March 28: Milan, IT – Mediolanum Forum
- March 30: Milan, IT – Mediolanum Forum
- April 3: Cologne, DE – Lanxess Arena
- April 5: Cologne, DE – Lanxess Arena
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