We move through our days as if equipped for triumph, yet our hands are often empty when the reckoning comes. Effort does not guarantee arrival; devotion does not ensure endurance. Again and again, we discover that the very faculties we trust: resolve, patience, love – wear thin at the moment they are most needed. Loss arrives as a quiet inheritance, asking us to bear what no practice can fully teach. Perhaps this is the hidden weight of being human: to strive knowing the ground may give way, and to grieve knowing that even grief will someday ask more of us than we can give.
There are records that arrive like letters written in careful ink, composed over years when speaking aloud felt impossible. IT’S THE LONG GOODBYE stands among those. It carries the weight of days lived under pressure, when joy and damage share the same room and neither agrees to leave. The Twilight Sad understand firsthand how memory lodges in the body; here, that understanding becomes a plainspoken act of witness. The songs move with purpose, guitar lines tightening and releasing as if testing the strength of the ground beneath them, while Graham’s tender vocals at the centre sound steadied by necessity rather than comfort.
DESIGNED TO LOSE sets the tone. Its motion feels measured, its force earned. The song circles a familiar human trouble: how effort so often ends in surrender, how resolve can thin just when it is most required. There is only the sense of a man accounting for the cost of staying upright. Loss is not theatrical; it is practical, daily, exhausting.
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IT’S THE LONG GOODBYE’s roots reach back to 2016, when triumph and catastrophe arrived in close succession. A tour high with The Cure dissolved into the slow erosion of illness, early onset frontotemporal dementia taking hold of James Graham’s mother. Much of the album was written while life appeared to be opening: marriage, parenthood…at the same time something essential was being cruelly erased. Years later, another tour ended early, with Graham’s mental health failing under accumulated strain. “And then my mum passed away in the January afterwards,” he says. The line lands without ornament, and that restraint defines the album’s strength.
Andy MacFarlane’s arrangements press forward with urgency, guitars stacked and straining, yet never overcrowded. They give the words a frame sturdy enough to bear them. Graham acknowledges the shift in his approach: “In the past I’ve used a lot of metaphors within my lyrics,” he says. “With this, there’s not as much…The record is heavily influenced by my mental health, grief and loss, and the need to be strong in positions where you’re not feeling it. It’s a very human story, I think – this is just my version of it. I feel that everybody goes through something like this. Everybody loses somebody. Everybody questions life.”
That sense of shared exposure is what carries the album beyond autobiography. Developed slowly, over seven years, it grew through distance and exchange: ideas stockpiled during lockdown, words traded back and forth. Robert Smith’s presence appears as texture and counsel, adding guitars, keys, and bass across several tracks, less as spectacle than as a steadying hand. The sessions at Battery Studios lend the work a quiet continuity with histories already written there.
““To know that I’m saying things that connect with other people, that’s such a powerful thing,” Graham reflects. “I want to be a relatable person that talks about things that can happen and give an opportunity for people to go, well, you’re not alone.” IT’S THE LONG GOODBYE offers that companionship honestly, acknowledging how often we fall short, and how speaking from that place can still hold us together.
Preorder IT’S THE LONG GOODBYE here. You can listen to DESIGNED TO LOSE below.
The Twilight Sad will be on tour in the UK and Europe in April and May including a performance at the Roundhouse in London. The band also recently announced news of a second Glasgow Barrowland show in early May. This will be followed by a handful of dates performing as special guests to The Cure in June and July.
- April 12 – Italy, Milan – Legend Club
- April 14 – Switzerland, Zurich, Bogen F
- April 15 – Germany, Munich, Ampere
- April 16 – Germany, Berlin, Gretchen
- April 18 – Denmark, Copenhagen, Loppen
- April 19 – Norway, Oslo, Parkteateret
- April 20 – Sweden, Stockholm, Slaktkyrkan
- April 22 – Germany, Hamburg, Grünspan
- April 23 – Netherlands, Utrecht, Tivolivredenburg Pandora Hall
- April 25 – Germany, Cologne, Gebäude 9
- April 26 – Belgium, Brussels, Rotonde – Botanique
- April 27 – France, Paris, Le Trabendo
- April 29 – UK, Bristol, Electric Bristol
- April 30 – UK, London, Roundhouse
- May 2 – UK, Manchester, New Century Hall
- May 3 – UK, Newcastle upon Tyne, Boiler Shop
- May 5 – Scotland, Glasgow, Barrowlands
- May 6 – Scotland, Glasgow, Barrowlands
- May 9 – Ireland, Dublin, Button Factory
- July 24-26 – UK, Deer Shed Festival
- Sun 14 June – Italy, Firenze, Visarno Arena
- Weds 24 June – Cardiff, Blackweir Fields
- Fri 26 June – Dublin, Marley Park
- Sun 28 June – Belfast, Belsonic
- Weds 8 July – Slovakia, Pohoda Festival
- Fri 10 July – Germany, Berlin, Wuhlheide
- Sat 11 July – Germany, Berlin, Wuhlheide
- Sun 12 July – Germany, Berlin, Wuhlheide
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